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Okey this is the deal, in short my father is really mad at me, lik not teenage-mad but mad as in hasn't-spoken-to-me-in-3-months mad. Won't even look at me. Talk to me or even about me. And don't tell me to communicate with him because in my culture things don't work that way,trust me..you have no idea. Now the thing is, his birthay is coming up..and what do I do? I don't even know if he'll accept a gift from me, and if he does - what do I even give him? And when I give it to him, what do I say? "Happy birthday dad, love you, *hug*, hope you dont feel like killing me anymore" (?) Any advice - PLEASE??
so basically:
question #1) What do I get him?
question #2) How do I act?
By the way, I'm 15 and female. And I have no other family member that I can talk to or that can help me (again, its my culture!) so thank you for advice on how to deal - because I REALLY can not "communicate" so don't suggest that one. And I can't appolgize either. So just "what do I buy?" and "what do I do when I give it to him?"
Thaank you ♥
i deffinitely understand this thing with your dad, and about how you dont want to apologize or communicate. in a way, i dont think you should.
this is a hard question to give advice to but here's what i got in mind:
i think you SHOULD still get him a present. try giving him something small like a framed photograph/symbol/picture/object that will remind him of a good memory between you guys (like an inside joke). afterall, you ARE his daughter.
then if you want, you can write something in a small card like "i hope we can work things out".
it might be hard to give him his gift up front and personal so if i were you, i would leave it somewhere where he can find it. im not sure if wrapping it completely up is a good idea because he could possibly ignore the offer. maybe set it in an opened cardboard box or if you want, keep it out in the open. if he know's that you're really concerned about this on the inside, he might loosen up.
i really hope everything turns out okay.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for caring and understanding ♥ you're a great advicenator specially since you have so much sympathy and really try to give good answers- thank youu!