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I've recently read in an article about depression and I think I might be getting into the stage if depression, if I'm not already there. I'm a 16 year old female. This last half-year has been insane for me. I dated this unbelievably perfect guy, we were together for a month and a half. I loved every minute of it. Then he got back with his ex... whom I basically stalk. I'm always checking on her myspace and aim... just wishing I was her. I know its so stuppid and lame but I can't help it. I've save all her pictures to my computer and stuff. ANother thing, I've lost my best friend. We were friends for 2 years and she started hanging out with other girls so I basically ditched her right back. I have another friend I mainly hang out with so I'm not exactly lonely, but I don'tlike hanging out with her too much because she has a bf and whenever I'm around the 2 of them, I feel soleft out, basically I'm the 3rd wheel. Another thing, I have major trouble getting up in the morning. I have to be on the bus by 7... I used to get up at around 5:30 and now I never feel like getting out of bed... earliest is probably 6:30 ... I've gained weght, not too much tho, only about 10 lbs, and my face started to break-out a lot. I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend, his gf, and everything. I'm not thinking about suicide or anything cause don't get me wrong, its not too horrible but I just wish I had something to motivat eme and stuff you know? I'm really insecure and I just wish that I wasn't. I mean I'm in high school and I dont wanna regret things. Any advice on how to get my life back on track? Am i suffering thruy depression? (link)
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You're in luck! YOU AE DEFINATELY NOT SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION! I know what it's like suffering through it! You are just stressed out. You're going through what every single 16 year old teenager is going through! Boyfriends/just being a teenager/highschool/LIFE! This is the age where you are being tied into two different worlds! Adult world where people think you should start gaining responsibility for things and yourself, and still a child where mom and dad still want you to come home at a certain time, and want you to do your homework, or not stay up late. It's confusing, and those are your every day stresses. I think that you're too hard on yourself! Most importantly this is what you have to understand! There is someone out there who will like you for you! Your ex didn't leave you because you looked a certain way or else he wouldn't have went out with you in the first place. He needs to be with someone else now, there's no reasons, no faults, it's because you guys are young and experimenting with different people. This is the time in your life to just have FUN! No one wants to settle down unless they know it's a for sure thing! And in reality you're not his for sure thing, as much as you want to be his right now, more importantly focus on you! You will never get over him the more you sulk about him, try getting hooked up with another guy or start hanging around people that are uplifting. Set up a girls-night-ONLY, and chill out have some fun! If you're really unhappy with your looks which seems to be the problem, do a mini-makeover, dye your hair a different color with a different style, sometimes changing something like that, can make you feel a lot better and more up-beat! Here's a pearl of wisdom for you: People will come and go out of your life, everyone that steps into your life is like an angel sent from God. They were put into your life for a reason whether it was for 10 minutes, 3 months, or 6 years, or even for the rest of your life, they all impact you in a certain way, some ways you will see, some ways you won't. Maybe this guy, was one of those people. He was sent there to help you through something, and then continued on, or maybe you were sent to help him through something, you never know! What you have to understand, is that people will come and go through your life, you're young and you WILL, I REPEAT WILL get over it, trust me! Everyone goes through it! Move on, and just be you!
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thank you sooo much :)
you made me happier
thanks again
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