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Hey! My name is Emily and I am 14, I signed up because I came across the site and my friend suggested I sign up because I am like the adviser of our group and people come to me with thier problems. I like helping people and try to give the best advice I can where possible. I am best at relationships ect but will give any other challenges ago!! And my pic sucks but I tried putting one of me but it kept saying file size too big, I got annoyed and settled for my msn pic!

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well i am having a baby and i got from when i got raped and my boyfriend said i will be the dad and i'll help buy things. i hope he does but i am afraid that we stay together and the baby sees him as daddy and calls him daddy then we breakup and what i will do to tell me child he's not daddy anymore

I think its good that you are keeping the baby after all you have been through. I suggest having the baby call your boyfriend by his first name, this will make it easier when the child is older if a split occurs, it also means when the child is old enough they will be able to understand better. This would let your child build up a relationship with him. Although I feel allowing the child to call him daddy could also help as even if you split your boyfriend will have built up a father son relationship anyway so will be most likely to wish to continue this. You have to decide what you thinks best.
Hope I helped :P
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(Rating: 4) thanx for the advice it gave me something to think about
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