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well i am having a baby and i got from when i got raped and my boyfriend said i will be the dad and i'll help buy things. i hope he does but i am afraid that we stay together and the baby sees him as daddy and calls him daddy then we breakup and what i will do to tell me child he's not daddy anymore (link)
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I'm proud of you for being strong enough to keep this baby and love it. If your boyfriend is going to be like a father to the child you can let him and this is really wonderful of your boyfriend. At some point in your child's life however they are going to have to learn that he is not the true father and for this reason it might be easier if he were called "Uncle" or called by his first name. It would be no different to a parent who had a divorce or had a husband die and was dating someone else when the baby was born. You can't worry about what will happen if you break up, just take every day at a time and focus on the love and attention the child is getting each day. Also, pray about it and let the child know that his true father is his "Heavenly Father" who was there for his from his moment of conception and will never leave him.
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thanx for the advice it gave me something to think about
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