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I just got dumped today by my boyfriend. I don't know what to do to keep my mind off of the breakup. What should I do to get back ot my regular self? (link)
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Hi.
First, you can try not thinking about him. I'm guessing that didn't work. I'm guessing that whenever you just sit around, you can't help but think about him, what he's doing right now, etc. Well, I have to tell you that you shouldn't expect it to go away quickly.
You can try to have other activities. Keep yourself occupied. Have fun. You need time to heal. If you see him, chances are that your feelings will start to bubble up again, and you will find yourself falling for him again. So, you should try to avoid him at this fragile time. Maybe, when things are better for both you and him, you can become friends or even exchange decent words.
Until then, don't try to initiate anything, coz the hurt will just probably surface..
Honestly, I think the best bet will really be keeping yourself occupied. Have fun and love life. You don't need him, so stop acting like you do. Depend on yourself and your friends. Don't be impatient. Time heals.
So, just wait. After a while, your feelings toward him will wane. If they don't disappear completely, though, don't worry because you just CARE about him. That's not necessarily a bad thing and it just proves that you are human.
Good luck.
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