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Q: I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
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tell her that shes pretty and that her friends and family care about her alot and that if she gets hurt one day like end up in the hospital from cutting, then you all would be deeply hurt inside. maybe you can hang out with her more with some other friends and make her cheer up and happy and make her know that you guys are theyre for her whenever she needs you and cutting isnt the way to solve her problems. i think all she needs is some happiness in her life so just hang out with her more often, talk to her more and maybe make her feel better about her self
ps. to tell her that her mom is wrong you could tell her that her mom isnt there for her whenever she needs someone and that a mom shouldnt be calling their own daughter ugly and fat
im sorry if that didnt help though
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thank you...but i still don't kno wut to do to make her kno that her mom is wrong
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Gender: Female Location: connecticut Age: 16 Member Since: December 11, 2004 Answers: 477 Last Update: February 5, 2009 Visitors: 20777
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