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Q: okay theres this guy back home, i love him so much and we are planning on getting married and starting a family. im dating another guy here at home, but the guy who isnt here is in my old state, and we are wanting to get together in the summer, and right now he wants to build up a long distance relationship. the guy im with now, things arnt working out. the guy, from the other state is an ex, but we broke up on good terms, over drama in like high school. im so confused, because i dont want to hurt the guy im with. he cries whenever something doesnt go his way, and the guy SWEARS he is in love with me and wants me to be his wife. i just dont know, im in love with someone else. i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP! =(

Alright first of all if your just a teenager dont rush anything with getting married. Try and be a kid as long as you can life is to short to be held down by someone just yet. And this guy you are recently with you need to leave him he is acting like a little child and needs to grow up before he gets commited. If you really love the other guy go with him but my advice is give it time dont jump into marriage or kids or anything yet grow up a little first. Not being mean if that sounded it.

i know, but marriage and kids are what we have wanted a long time. plus, im not into parties, and im almost through with college, im about to get my physcology degree, and he is playing for a college baseball team trying to become pro. we both decided we wanted this, but i let the other guy go, now im with the one i love.

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Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.

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