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ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.

and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question

The only way to get her back would be to talk to her. Tell her that you really need to talk to her and say something like this, "Look I know I must have insulted you by accusing you of cheating, it is just that I care so much about you when I heard that I freaked out. I am sorry, I hope you are not mad at me." From there you can just remain friends with her until you think it the right time to ask her out agin, or if she seems like she misses you then tell her you miss her and if she could give you another chance because you know you wont make the same mistake. Be really nice, especially if you guys have been
going out for along time, girls are very sensitive and chances are she probably misses u just as much as you miss her

Hope I helped and
good luck I am sure everything will work out just fine.

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