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Well I can help out anyone who plays or wants to play sports. I have been on softball, basketball, volleyball, soccer teams throughout gradeschool, highschool and college. So if you need help with anything regarding sports, let me know. And if I havent done that sport I might know something you could need help with! Also, my friends always come to me with their relationship problems, so if that's something you need help with as well, I'd be glad to help!

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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.

Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.

The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?

I'll rate 5's for anything

Ok, so this can both ways here. He should not have been texting another girl talking like that. Those conversations should not have happened in the first place. Yes, you should have stopped her a little more, but he's at more fault than you. He has no right to be pissed. You have the right to be pissed since he's having conversations like that. You should sit down with your boyfriend and ask him about this 'ashley' girl and why she's sending him those text messages. See what he says then. Maybe you can prove to your boyfriend that your friend sent that text and that you tried to make an her stop texting that message to 'ashley'

I hope this helkped you out!


~4evaurs_21~

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much girl !
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