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Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm a freshman @ SAC.
I have just become a Biology major because I want to work with cute little animals when I grow up.
I play guitar in the band, Ashtray Drama, which has been on a prolonged hiatus, but one of these days we will play shows again.
Most people think we kick ass---but that's for you to decide...
I am pretty much the best person to ask for advice because I came from nothing and now I have what one would call the "Perfect Life".
I go to a killer prestigious college which is trying to make its way to the Ivy League, I have the most amazing boyfriend in the world who I am going to marry, and I am pretty much awesome at everything I do.
I used to be a complete spazzy ditz in high school, but I know how to get my ish together and most people wish they were me.
So yeah, ask away... I probably have the perfect answer♥

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I'm 17 years old and i dropped out of school and i dont have a job and i reallly want one i aplied every where and no one has CALLED ME!! All i do is sit here al day getting yelled at by my mom because i dont have a job!! But im trying!! im so depressed im just here all day and we need money so bad were almost evicted ive gained so much weight since ive been home ive been in the hospital before for trying to kill myself and i have cut marks all over my body im about to jump over the EDGE!! and i have a physicall comming up and if my doctor see's those marks im right back at the psych ward:( how do i cover those marks??

I really need some advice thanx

Ok, first of all, you have to figure out which problem is the most important and attack that one first. You can't do everything at once-- it takes time. Just take a day to go out and apply to tons of random jobs that you could work at. To get a good job, you have to present yourself well. If you don't like yourself, what makes you think the companies hiring you will. You have to walk in with confidence. This will get you out of the house and away from your mom who is yelling. Keep going out and looking for jobs until you get one. Once you get one, everything will start coming together. You will then be able to attack the other problems: with a job, you are doing stuff all the time so you will lose the weight. You won't be sitting around like a fat fuck and eating all day. A job can solve most everything. About the cuts-- I, too used to cut and still am prone to it (yeah, i know you prolly are like, why the hell would SHE be depressed, but yeah...it happens, youre not alone)...What I did was just stopped cutting and put Mederma cream (you can get it at any drug store) on the scars. They went away and faded. Now they look really old and some have compltely gone away. You need to just calm down and take things slowly. Things won't be perfect right away, trust me, I've been there, but they will get better as time goes by.
Hope to have helped and God bless! ♥

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(Rating: 5) thnx best advice yet!!!
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