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There is a guy I really like (who also has the slight potential of liking me back). He's very funny and actually very polite and nice. However, he doesn't seem to be a very devout Christian, because he cusses. Even though I cuss sometimes, I feel like he may have a bad influence on me in that way, and I know from Bible study that I'm supposed to surround myself with people who share my beliefs and are going to be a good influence. But there seems to be something wrong with that, because if I cuss now and then, I may be a kind of bad influence on others too, and they wouldn't want to be around ME either. I guess what I'm trying to ask is...would it be okay to continue to flirt with this guy and (if it works out right) date him? Sorry, this was kind of long and confusing... btw, I'm almost 16, if that helps any. (link)
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Cursing doesn't make you a bad person. Heck, we all do it. But if he likes you, and you like him, try to get him to tone it down a bit.
A great way of doing this is to challenge him not to cuss. Mark down every time he does, and playfully wave it in his face. He'll get better at not doing it, and eventually, he'll just stop.
Any way, if that is the only issue, go for it.
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