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Q: I am a 16 year old girl. I met this 22 year old guy online at a chat room and we met. We became really very good friends, and within few months (7 months to be precise), i fell for him. After 3 months since we met, we met again, and I felt from his behaviour that he too loves me, though he never told me. He kept on calling, or if I called him up, he said what kept me so long. He has also helped me a lot coping with my studies, and also nosy parents. A close friend of mine also felt that this guy has something for me. On her advice, I let her e-mail the guy (using her mail ID) and told him that she feels I love him. She made it look like I didn't know she mailed him, and also she mailed me another e-mail saying that that guy loves me (though i knew she made up the mail). I was to behave that it was a surprising mail, and my friend's idea was to know this guy's mind. But he said after a fortnight that he doesn't love me, but he thought I was his best friend and he is ready anytime to call me his best friend if I still liked to maintain the friendship. I readily agreed, but he is no longer the same guy. He answered my call once only to say that he was busy and he'd call me back. He didn't and now he's hot answering my call. I dont call him anymore (for more than two weeks), but I just cannot forget him. I dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!
-Bishakta Manush
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Alright hun just let me say one thing.. grown up, not trying to be mean but he is 22 and you are only 16. I know you think you may love him but hun hes a grown man meaning he has a whole different way of living than you do. Being friends is just fine and good but being a couple is probably something he didnt want i know it may hurt to let him go because you do have a crush on him but you just have to remember that, he could hurt you. Not saying he would but you have to be very careful on things like this. Give it some time youll meet someone around your age and youll forget about wanting to go with this 22 year old and swoon over the other guy, thats why there called crushes it hurts when you cant talk to them.
My advice to you is just give it some time and just be friends with him dont try and be his girlfriend, because he probably does want someone a little older to be in a relationship with. Dont be so eager to grow up trust me stay a teen as long as you can. I hope i helped a little if not im truly sorry i tried. Hope to hear from you soon to see how this turned out.
~*~ Short N Punky ~*~
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Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: NY Occupation: Full time mom Age: 24 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 19, 2004 Answers: 237 Last Update: May 1, 2014 Visitors: 18088
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