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Hey, well im kirsty, Thats me in the pic kinda small but yeh.. thats me :) Don't be afraid to ask me a question im always more than happy to help. i've had a column before this one but some one stole my pass when i was at a net cafe :| so yeh.. damn people! This columns here to stay. i really don't know what to write about here just yet so i'll update another time.
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ok so as most of you know i was rapped by my bfs friend and i told my bf after some hesitation...and he totally understood..he understood by breaking the guy (we'll call him "j") Js arm. and Js dad is a lawyer so you could tell his dad was pissed! and my bf might have to go to juvey 4 six months!!UGH and thats not even the worst part J keeps calling me and horrasing me..i cant tell my parents cuz they have enough on their platee already.. (divorce, cancer,new baby coming..) and so i cant tell them...and i am feeling really lousy..and im scared to go get a pregnancy test..what should i do!!!!????
Well hun firstly... Well done for telling on "J" its not a easy thing to do and not many rape victims do it, so you should feel really pleased with yourself!!
secondly... Good on your boyfriend for breaking "J's" arm! great boyfriend you've got there hun!
As for the pregnancy test kit, don't be scared about it, theres so many ways of getting one and private ways to go about it. Here in the UK theres a brooke centre where you can go in and get the test kit and other advice on situations like this without your parents having to know.. in the states i beleive its 'Planned parenthood'? so google that to find the nearest one in your area/neighbourhood. Its all done confidentially so theres no need to worry about being judged or embarrassed.
seriously hun don't put it off, the sooner the better.
If J's dad is a lawyer i would of expected him to be pretty pissed at his own son's behaviour. Infact if that was me, i wouldn't send your boyfriend to juvey at all, i would just disown my son for doing such a sick thing. i hope everything goes okay with you and your boyfriend, stick by him for support, he seems like a genuinly nice, loving supportive guy. I really hope he doesn't get sent to Juvey
If you need any more help or just want someone to talk to, im always here so drop me a message in my inbox or email me and i will get back to you ASAP.
Good luck hun x
(Rating: 5) thank you soooo sooo much!!