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Olivia. I'm super protective of my friends, they are all my heros. I don't take shit from anyone but I'm still a really nice person, I swear.

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My boyfriend (of a year and a couple months) and I broke up a little over 6 months ago. (we’ll call him K) But we’ve acted like we were still together up until 4 weeks ago. I met someone (we’ll call him M) a week before I went on vacation/work. (3 weeks ago) (I would talk to M everyday almost 3 times a day! I would also talk to K while I was out of town. K would tell me how much he loves me, he can’t move on and he doesn’t want to, he wants me to come back, etc. A few days after I got back M and I hung out and we got together officially. Now K calls me every once in awhile and we’ve gone out to lunch a couple days within the past two weeks. And the last few days I’ve hung out with him and his friends, and I’ve missed that. Now, about K, he has cheated on me…a couple times, but I seriously love him with all my heart. I miss everything. And I know, I’ve been told, once he has cheated, he’ll do it again and that I’m stupid for taking him back, but I really cannot help it. So, now M and I have been dating for less than 3 weeks and I feel bad because he’s into everything I’m into and he cares about me A LOT! And now I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried to write out each good and bad thing about each of them and I can’t figure out who I really want to be with. I mean, I do want to be with K, but at the same time M is there too. I don’t know what to do. If you have good advice, help me out! J I rate.. If this is too confusing or something, let me know and I can explain a little better.

You and K broke up for a reason. work on getting over him. it takes time. Fortunately you have time (i'm assuming you're not like, 80 here) and there are obviously other guys out there who will treat you well. Maybe you need more time to get over K before being in a relationship, or maybe you need to distract yourself by being in a relationship. Think about it. Just be careful not to lead M on, it's okay to let him know that you need to break up/move slow/ not get serious right now because you just ended a long relationship. Obviously don't say "because I still like K". It's fine to hang out with K still, just give yourself plenty of time to figure out your other options before you go back to him. good luck.

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(Rating: 5) thank you for your feedback... im 21 lol im definitely not 80. again - thanks!
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