I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.
p.s. LOVE IS VILE!!
E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
Answers: 135
Last Update: February 5, 2007
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does anyone here has some good tips how to get over a guy you really really love but just cant take this anymore???????? i really dont know what to do how can i get over him??? PLEASE HELP!!! i'll rate high for good advice (link)
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Aww, I've been there! Well if he was your first love then don't expect it to be easy. If you guys are friends (even if you're not) you may want to talk with him about it. That gives you closure, so you don't 'wonder' anything. When you're sad just let it out. But don't let yourself think of him too much. Thinking sad thoughts over and over will only bring you pain and will undo your recovery. When you find yourself drifting into thoughts of him (memories and stuff) just keep yourself busy and think of something else. It's best if you tried to keep a distance from him for now (and until you get over him). Seeing your ex around so much can be painful but if you don't see him as much you think less of him, don't have so many memories of seeing him around, get more distracted, and move on much faster. Just keep yourself busy and distratced with school (yes, studying and joining clubs and walking around campus to look for really cute guys), your friends (talk to them or the one or ones you really trust about how you feel, when you feel sad, when you feel angry, when you feel it's not fair. letting it out of your system and saying GRR! helps), and maybe even take up a hobbie like writing or painting so you can also let your feelings out in an artistic manner. Well my best wishes to you, from one sympathetic broken heart to the other... (that sounds depressing lol. but hearts DO heal. it's human nature. 'time heals everything'.)
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