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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!

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I have posted a few questions before and its a comfort to know how much support is out there. Two weeks ago my girlfriend of 4mnths left me. She came over to my house on a Saturday evening. While I took a shower she went on my computer and found I had seen a porn site or two. I came out of the shower and she said nothing. We went out for dinner and went back to my house. She showed me the site and broke down. She left me. She has cancelled her cell phone. She wont respond to my emails. Her parents wont even speak to me. My question for you is why is she doing this. I mean after two weeks youd think she'd talk again. But she wants nothing to do with me. I love her and would do anything to win her back. Im 25. The night she left me I broke down. I cried alot. I lost everything. What can I do to win her back. Something that will melt her heart. Why girls do this? How to get her parents to talk? Im so lost hurt and torn. This is the second time in my life I got shut out in a relationship. I've come at wits end.

It sounds like this girl has something seriously agains porn. Maybe her parents do too. She was so shocked that she found this that she doesn't even want to respond. She's so upset at you that she doesn't want to even speak to you again, because she's probably afraid that you want her to become involved in porn or something. If you can ever get ahold of her sit down with her and tell her the truth. Tell her why you visited those sites. Tell her how much you love her. How much you always have loved her and how much you always will love her. Tell her anything that comes into your mind when you see her. Tell her that you made a big mistake and that you well never ever do it again just for her. Once you earn her trust back, you'll earn her parents' back too. Good luckk.

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(Rating: 5) I appreciate the help. Thank you. I will try. If it fails, i will move on.
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