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Hey! My name is Emily and I am 14, I signed up because I came across the site and my friend suggested I sign up because I am like the adviser of our group and people come to me with thier problems. I like helping people and try to give the best advice I can where possible. I am best at relationships ect but will give any other challenges ago!! And my pic sucks but I tried putting one of me but it kept saying file size too big, I got annoyed and settled for my msn pic!

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my bestfriend sandra has a big problem and my friends and i dont nkow what to do well shes turning 14 she has small boobs she wants them to grow but she dosnt want plasctic surgery everyn 1 teases her tells her omg go get a breasty surgery she wanst them to grow really bad what can she do to grow them because i feel really upset whn she crys :(:(

People all develop at different rates so at 14 its nothing to be worried about. I am 14 and have been in a similar situation to you, I am a little more developed than my other friends who are picked on for being flat chested. Its all a matter of development rate and it will happen for her eventually.

I would suggest talking to her about it, and if the teasing continues get bad tell a teacher or her parents. She needs to know she is normal and if some adults know the people who are teasing her they can be educated on how its not a big issue.

I would show her some pictures of flatter chested celebrities and tell her how amazing they look as well as letting her know not all boys like large boobs, as I have seen in polls in girls magazines.

Best thing to do is be there for her through all the teasing and let her know she is being a strong and good person with her plastic surgery opinions! Hope this helped xordinarygirlx

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(Rating: 5) thx mwaz
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