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Q: My best friend is over weight. My other freinds and I are all skinny. Well, I found out she is on a diet and trying to loose enough weight to look good in a bathing suit. And I think that's so great and stuff. She sent me this question on Advicenators on what she should do ... I found out it was her and said we should talk. I'm waiting for her to say something to me. i told me two other freinds.. all four of us are BFs. I'm worried she's on a bad diet. She's been overweight her whole life.Should we talk to her about it? I know if we did she would get all offensive. She doesn't dress for her body type and I don't know what to say. Should we talk to her? What should we say? What if she gets mad? What advice could we give her? I WILL RATE 5S!
You shouldn't worry too much about your friend, but if you notice her not eating at all, losing weight rapidly, or going to the bathroom a lot, you might have to worry! Try to do more activities that keep you moving as BFs, like going outside and taking a walk instead of watching tv or going to a movie. Most likely is that your friend will be helped by getting active. Crash diets usually won't help. But use your better judgement on this one, and you'll be able to tell, you know her best.:)

thanks so so much!

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