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Okay, a week ago, this guy who I barely even know (I don't even know his last name) sent me an e-mail declaring that he loves me and wants to be with me. I sent him a very polite decline, because I just do not feel that way about him at all, and now he keeps on e-mailing me with guilt trips about how he thinks he's going to be alone for the rest of his life, and he keeps telling me that he loves me. I suspect that he thinks that if he keeps doing this that I'll change my mind...I don't quite know how to deal with this. So far, I've treated him like I would want to be treated were I in his position, but he's starting to make me feel really uncomforatble. What can I do??

Thanks!

Don't respond to any more e-mails. Keep them saved just incase you may need them later(hopefully you won't!). I know you don't want to be rude, but if you feel harassed, then there's no reason why you shouldn't be a bit firmer with him. Blocking him would be ideal, provided that's the only contact he can have with you. Being passive with these types of people just doesn't work. You need to lay it on the line for him and get rid of him.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. I have recently been forced to sever all contact with this guy, and now all I have to do is wait and hope...I appreciate your advice!
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