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Q: Okay, a week ago, this guy who I barely even know (I don't even know his last name) sent me an e-mail declaring that he loves me and wants to be with me. I sent him a very polite decline, because I just do not feel that way about him at all, and now he keeps on e-mailing me with guilt trips about how he thinks he's going to be alone for the rest of his life, and he keeps telling me that he loves me. I suspect that he thinks that if he keeps doing this that I'll change my mind...I don't quite know how to deal with this. So far, I've treated him like I would want to be treated were I in his position, but he's starting to make me feel really uncomforatble. What can I do??

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ok. you can block him. or. you can re-email him. tell him if he doesnt stop (remember say this as politley as possible) you will go to people of high authority and you have proof (the emails) tell him it makes you uncomfortable and that if he actually thinks that him trying to make you guilty thats not going to make you change your mind.. it will probably make it worse because its getting annoying which is bad. hope ihelped do write back mwaaaaa

Thank you. I have recently been forced to sever all contact with this guy, and now all I have to do is wait and hope...I appreciate your advice!

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