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My boyfriend and I are having a lot of issues. We've been together for two years and things are beginning to go downhill. We've had a lot of bad times, but this one is pretty bad.

Nothing has really happened. I am 15 years old and homeschooled. We've been fighting about a lot of things lately, tiny things. Last night, he told me he wasn't sure if he's ready for a serious relationship anymore. We've been very serious and I have no idea what I should do. I am pretty sure that this relationship is really worth the struggle, because we talk about everything. We never cuss and scream at each other when we fight because we know its wrong. We've decided to save ourselves for marriage, and I think thats amazing for a teen relationship thats gone for so long.

My problem is that if we break up, I know that I will lose myself, and I know everyone has to get over someone, but I have depression. So, I think it would worsen me if I had to deal with normal crying breaking up and depression all at the same time. Any advice?

(Also, I don't really have any friends to help me cope with this)

Wow, so I was almost in that exact same situation only I wasn't homeschooled, and a few other differences.

But, what I learned from it was that I had put all of my life into that boy, and when he went away he took it with him, so I thought. But I went on a vacation and I just didn't talk to him or about him, and it actually felt good to be without him.

I eventually go used to the fact that he was'nt with me, and my life was still fine. But I was also going to a councelor so that helped, maybe you could do that too?

But what you need to do is realize you are still young, and there is so much opportunity out there for you, and you shouldn't get soo stressed over a boy when you still have your whole life ahead of you. Just remember all of the good times you have had with him and take those with you, and leave the bad with him....

Good Luck with everything, if you need anything drop it in my inbox..

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(Rating: 5) That was amazing advice, and I truly feel better to know that someone was there in my situation. I'll definetly talk to you about this more soon, I'll probably drop it in your inbox. Thank you so much.
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