hey there, I'm Lauren.
i have amazing friends who i love.
especially my best friend taylor. he's the bomb.
i love answering advice, so ask me a question some day.
i love dealing with other people's problems so i'm not focused on my own.
i dont usually have problems with people; i'm generally a nice person.
i'll probably like you.
xx Lauren
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okay... I have this friend (lets say her name is Kelley) and shes really cool and stuff. I have another friend, (lets say her name is Jen) who I used to be really good friends with. Now Jen is a lot more "popular" than me and kelley, but she was pretty nice to us up until a few months ago. First, we had always sat at the same table together, and now she is sitting with the kids who are really mean. She didnt say anything to us or anything, and she just sort of ditched us. I was okay with that, maybe she just wanted to meet new people or something. So anyways, Now we have to do a community project for school. Kelley and I are making blankets for children in a homeless shelter and jen wants to deliver bears to the hospital. Shes all mad cuz we wanna do something else so she just switches groups. Shes seemed really selfish to me because she was saying "what kids would want some stupid blankets" and was sayin that "oh this will take too long." She calls us her "little friends" all the time because she thinks her popular friends are more important or something.
So I really dont know what to do. She doesnt know that me and Kelley are mad at her, and I have just kind of avoided her. On the other hand, I dont want to be mean either.
Should I give Jen another chance? Or should I just stay away and be friends with Kelley? (link)
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Maybe Jen used to be a great friend, but she obviously isn't now. I know it's going to be hard, because this recently happened to me, but just don't hang out with her. Keep everything on good terms, but don't go out of your way to be nice to her. Kelley seems nice, and I think you should just stick her with her. When Jen realizes the mistake she made, it'll be to late and you and Kelley are better off without her.
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