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Q: im 14/f my bf is 17. he is always talking about how he wants to marry me and how much he loves me. i love him. i know you will think im to young. im not to young to know love. alright. so he got me this necklace for christmas that has a heart on it that on the front our names are ingraved and on the back it says "7 or 8 more years..." theres a story behind it...but its about me and him getting married in 7 or 8 years. then for valentines day he got me a ring. he wants to get married in 4 or 5 years now.... and he calls me his wife. like when he intorduces me to his friends he callse me his wife. and even to his mom he says hes going to see his wife and stuff. and whenever i see a baby i want one of my own.... is that normal? to want to have his kid? me and him have never had sex or anything. were really jsut good kids in love. so is that bad/wrong/weird/normal?

it's very normal to dream the way you do. and he seems like a keeper. but you just have to realize that if your dreams to become a reality, you're going to miss out on a lot of things such as boy watching with friends at the beach and all that fun stuff. but i totally understand that when you say you love him, then you love him. that's really sweet of him to wait for so long for you. this can be true love, but you'll never know when it comes to love. it's a hard topic to understand. and your other questions? "is it bad/wrong/weird..?" not at all.