about

I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona

DON'T have sex with him. Not because if the legalities ect but he is putting pressure on you to do something you are not willing to do and he obviously doesn't love or respect you, i'm sorry.

''If we dont then we have to stop going out''

That isn't something someone would say to someone if they love them., you must be able to see that.

He also sounds very immature, i'd expect a guy of 15 to say that, not 22.

It sounds as though he would dump you either way, if you dont have sex he'l dump you. If you do hav sex with him, he'll dump you because he obviously doesn't care, love or respect you anymore.

I know it's hard to hear, but it's the sad truth. xxx

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!
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