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Age: 14
Yahoo: sweetblonde1324
Member Since: February 6, 2006
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we're always messing around but lately we haven't it feels like our realationship isn't the same anymore.i told him i didn't feel like it was the same and he told me he was feeling the same way so he suggested that could be the problem that we haven't been messing around with each other and he thinks we should start again,but i feel that why should we mess around juss so we can feel that spark between us again.shouldn't it juss be like we don't have to do anything like that juss so our relationship could be the same.i don't like the fact that i always have to satisfy him juss so he can be happy with us.i feel like if i don't do it our relationship will not be the same.wat should i do?should i do it or not.he's not pressuring me to do it he was saying that as a suggestion but i don't know i juss need some advice i guess and i will rate a five for juss sum good advice (link)
If u guys always used to mess around, and thats what kept your relationship going, and now that youve stopped for a while, you dont feel that spark, then it just isnt working out. I had that problem, where the only time i ever felt like a liked this guy, was when we were talking about doing stuff, or doing it. It was just like he was my friend, and if we werent doing something romantic or at least talking about it, then it just wasnt a romantic relationship. it must really suck feeling like you have to be doing things with him, for him to like you. Im really sorry, but he should like you for who you are, not how much you put out.


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