Hey :-) I'm Claire. This may be a new column, but I've been an advicenator for a while now (I got a new column for the new year) and am experienced at answering your questions! I love helping people and will try my very best to solve your problems. Feel free to ask me anything and make sure to let me know how everything turns out for you xxx :-P
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13/f ok so ive been going out with this guy(lets call him bill) for 10 months now and i LOVE THE KID TO DEATH but i get REALLY jelous sometimes. like just today my friend hugged him and he hugged her and it just botherd me SO MUCH!!!! i know he loves me and would never hurt me but its just weird i guess. and we play "mind games" with eachother. for example he'll say a joke and ill pretend to take it personally and he'll be like "o im sorry i love you blah blah blah" or the other way around. and it just starts getting annoying. but its the only way we really flirt. i love him but i think im a bitch to him sometimes too!!! so i think he deserves ALOT more than me so i dont know if i should break up with him or not. i mean......on one side......i love him and need him on the other i want him to be happy. does anyone know how to help me i swear 5's all around!!! (link)
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Don't dump him because you think he deserves better than you, if he thought that he wouldn't be going out with you. He loves you too, believe me. But don't take my word for it, the only way for you to be completley secure in your relationship is to talk to him about it. Talk about everything your worried about and I'm sure he'l be able to reassure you that he wants to be with you and is happy with you.
The whole jealousy thing is hard. I have the same situation with my boyfriend right now and my best friend. It's difficult to judge whether to do anything, it may just end up upsetting people. The way that I think I'm going to go and you could to, is to get a friend to point out the closeness between them to my best friend. That way we don't seem like the paranoid girlfriend as its "their" opinion and it stops.
Good luck hunni, hope it works out okay
Sapphire Lily xxx
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thank you so much ill deffinitly take your advice! : )
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