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This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her.
Yes, tell him. Don't tell him in a way that sort of says that you're sorry for him and that you're sugercoating what she's saying. But tell him. Please, at first say,"I'm not trying to get into your business or anything." Start it off like that and say,"but I thought I should tell you," then etc. Let it be that. Don't feel sorry for him and be direct. Don't say it slow. When you do that, then let it be over with. Think of it as business. You're going to him for business that needs to be settled quickly and direct. Don't hide it. Just tell him. If he gets an attitude, just leave. OH, and you might also want to point out the fact that you have no alterior motive by telling him this whatsoever.
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