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I'm here and will attempt to answer questions that relate to either your SPIRITUALITY or your HEALTH. I consider myself to be a very spiritual human being, not religious as I don't follow an organized religion's dogma.
My heart is my good book and I attempt to live life from that point of view. I have lived long enough to have gained some wisdom and feel I could have something worthwhile to share.
I've used herbs and natural supplements and followed a healthy lifestyle since the early 90's, in fact it was herbs and herbal supplements and some lifestyle changes that saved my life.
As there have been some pretty wonderful people that have helped me along my life's journey, it's simply my turn to give back and if I can help someone here, I'm glad to do that. Hope to hear from you with your questions and if I help just one other person during my experience here, it will have been worth it. Have a very Happy&Health new year everyone, you all deserve it!

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[True Question.] 15/f
I`m scared of dying or anyone dying close to me. I asked this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=412887

And I`m doing really good about that situation. I can finally look at his picture without wanting to cry. But lately everytime my mind goes blank, death of my parents or sister or brother come into my mind. The thing that even freaks me out the most is that I know that they are doing to die sooner or later, & I can`t even try to stop it. I know i`d be miserable without them. I couldn`t even cope with the lost of my cousin, imagine trying to cope with my parents or sister/brother dying. No body knows I feel this way, and it`s eating me inside. What I`m trying to ask is how can I possibily get over this right now & worry about it later? I don`t want my fear of death running my life. Ughhh. I`m just so scared of this. Help. PLEASE.

First, calm down, take some long slow deep breaths... and I mean often! Gather yourself each day, relax and know that you are not alone since ALL of us have to face 'death'.

Perhaps I might suggest that while your Mom was carrying you in her womb, she experienced a death in the family and those emotions became part of your reality. A good book on the subject is Voices from the Womb.

Also, if you believe at all that we all live many lives, it could be a 'carryover' from a pastlife.

Also, you may have experience an emotional trauma as a very young child too young to remember that leaves scars in your emotional makeup.

Also, when one can open up their belief system to allow for the understanding that 'death' isn't really an end to anything(except the human body), then it is sometimes easy to think about death. It is not the end and in fact there are some really good books on life after death, near death experiences(which I have experienced), all of which I believe would be good reading for you. There is a doctor out of Seattle WA that wrote a book call, Closer to the Light, I believe and he tells you stories(true) of children and young people having near death experiences and their candid comments and report of their experiences around 'dying'.

I hope all this helps.... it was my intention to assist you not scar you or tell you weird stuff. But a famous person once said, "The only fear is fear it is".

I wish you well and hope you find some peace. And just know that when a loved one or friend leaves this human experience for that of the eternal one, on their transitional trip there, they are always met by loved ones or people that had cared about them. May the Angels of Divine Light guide you into a better place of understanding death. I feel soon you will find peace!

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