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A LiL BiT ABOUT MOi.,.,.,

i DONT SEE THE POiNT iN ASKiNG STOOPiD QUESTiONS.. iT BORES ME :(

ERM WAT ELSE?
i LOVE LiSTENiNG TO MUSic, GOiNG OUT WiTH MY FRiENDS, GETTiNG A LiL BiT TiPSY AND OF COURSE ADViCENATORS :p iTS SO GREAT, THE AMOUNT OF TiMES I NEEDED ADViCE AND iVE COME HERE, iTS AMAZinG.

THATS ALL i CAN THinK OF RiTE NOW
:D EMMA ♥
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so i have been with this team for about 6 years and i work hard each summer and i'm still benched a lot throughout the whole season. I'm not very good friends with the people on the team and sometimes i think that i'm not that good. i'm torn between quitting when the season ends or sticking witht the team. it would only be one more year of it and then i'd be done. should i go through being benched a whole year again, and keep trying to improve, or should i just quit and let the stress and other drama be gone? help! (link)
hi

why don't you try speaking to the coach or who ever is in charge?

tell him/her how your feeling?
stick with it, if you weren't good enough they would've thrown you out a long time ago ... or they wouldn't have let you join the team in the first place.

as for the friends issue, after training why dont you invite a few other players to get a coffee or w/e with you? im sure they would love to go.

keep trying to improve, show them that your good then you won't keep getting benched.

stick with it!!!!!

good luck x



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