I am a Christian, and I love giving advice, so you can be anonymous or not, I would just love to hear from you! My friends tell me that I am a great person to come to for advice. I seem to know just what to say. I don't know. =) I love listening to people and problems. I just don't like being in the middle of them; I do choose sides if I absolutely have to. I want to be a Social worker or a counseling Psychologist someday. I am a senior in high school, and I start college in August of '06. I'm in band, and choir. I play French horn and sing alto. I have been through a lot with friends/family and even though I haven't, I feel like I've seen it all, so I hope I can help!
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so theres this guy right. i met him at track and it was cool. we talked at meets and stuff and then the season ended and i didnt see him for awhile but now a new marking period started and i guess his schedule switched so i see him a lot and in the past couple weeks hes walked with me everywhere and met me at my locker and at first it was a little too strong for me but now im like ok. i might like him. but theres a couple problems... im a sophomore and hes a freshman and hes drinks and partys and i dont go for that, plus my parents are really uptight and i dont know how i would go about like telling them about him. so yea.. i really dont know what to do. hes asked me to hang out a couple times but i avoided it. im not sure how i feel about him. sometimes i want him and others i dont. help? (link)
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I think it's awesome that you are consious about that. I've been in this dilemma too...it's probably the best if you don't go for it. He may be a nice guy...but you can probably do better. Not saying you can't like him...just don't date him...at least not yet. If he knows you aren't a partier, he may lose interest too, and you won't have to worry about it anymore. Then again, he could start trying to keep getting you to do it. Stand firm. Plus, if he MIGHT have a reputation of being a player, I wouldn't go for it. It's your life, you make your own decisions...but be careful if you do. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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