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I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. The magic is completely gone and I don't look forward to seeing him. He always does the nicest things for me, but I used to see them as cute and now I find them to be ordinary. He also doesn't get physical with me, and c'mon, every girl has her sexual needs. I have a little thing for two other boys and both of them like me. However, I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I know I'll regret it later on. But right now, it's not satisfying for me to be in this relationship. I'm not giving him my all, so I shouldn't give him anything. I'm totally clueless.. help? (link)
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You need to decide what you want. If it's to stay in this relationship you need to talk to him. Communication is an important part of every relationship. Tell him how you feel. For all you know, he might think you're really happy with the way things are going right now and that you are not the physical type or he was just trying to be respectful. you could also make the first move if he is not comfortable in doing so or just doesn't pick up on the fact that that's what you want (Guys are totally clueless when it comes to hints).
If you're not going to talk to him you really need to break up with him. It's not fair to him that you are leading him on like this if you really dont feel anyhting or him or you're just bored with this relationship. You say you'd regret this decision but if you are not willing to fix what's wrong then there is no point in being in this relationship. If he's not the right guy for you, then you will meet the guy who is someday.
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