Hi hi everyone! My name is Alice. That is my real name anyways. Everyone besides my grandparents call me Allie. I'm going to be 15 in March. I live in Philly, PA. I'm a Freshman and I play lacrosse and soccer. I made this site because I love helping people out with things and I will give you the best advice I can think of. My friend suggested I start this site because I give great advice. I will almost never give you a short undetailed answer. Unless it's like a yes or no question that is. Feel free to drop anything in my inbox.
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Age: 14
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me & my boyfriend really like each other a lot. we've been dating for a while now. we've madeout, but we've discussed it & that's as far as we're going to go. usually we'd do that at my house or his. [not the whole time, just occasionally] of course my parents were be home during this, but we never got walked in or anything..until yesterday. my mom didn't get mad. she was just disappointed because she doesn't want me doing that. she says i'm too young [i'm 14 & i'll be 15 in july] & that it can lead to other things. [which we've discussed time & time again & it hasn't & it's not going to] my boyfriend is 15 & will be 16 in may. my mom says when i'm his age, she won't see it as a big deal..but she says i need to wait. to make it even worse, she told my dad, who of course actually was upset over the whole thing. so my boyfriend & i discussed it all & decided we won't makeout anymore because we can live without it. but now i'm worried i won't be able to hang out with him as much because my parents will be all weird about it. even my mom said she can't trust me anymore so she seems to think we'll sneak & just makeout at his house. i don't know what to do. i really don't feel like i was doing anything wrong. i haven't done anything else & i don't want to. should i just stick with the plan i have now & wait until i'm older or is there another way around all of this? if you can help, thanks a bunch. (link)
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There is nothing wrong with making out and maybe you need to tell your mom that. If she's so fine with you having a boyfriend a year older than you or whatever, she should be comfortable with you making out.
If your not comfortable talking to her about it then invite your mom to like watch a movie at your house with you and your boyfriend or something so she can see that's not how you are.
Hope I helped. Allie boo
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exactly. but she got to know him & now she no longer trusts him or something. it's dumb. thanks though. ♥
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