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Q: i have a question bout my parens ...... well dealing with them. I am 15 years old. My parents argue a lot and i cant take it. i hate it so much and they dont understand how much sress it causes me. i dont know how to deal. how can i deal with the stress and anger they cause me? please answer as soon as possible. thank you.

Signed,
Stressed and emotional
you are in a hard situation and its understandable that you are stressed and emotional. Anyone would be with that going on. You can try and talk to them, like the other have suggested. That may help. Also, why not focus on yourself. In a few years you could be headed to college. Think about where you would want to go, it could be anywhere in the country. Find out what you need to do to get in, like grades, extra-cirriculars, etc. then go for it. First, it will keep you busy and out of the house, so you don't have to deal with that. Second, it will show that their negativity won't get you down. You do things that are positive for you and you will start to feel better. You can't help who you are born to or the situation they are in, but at a certain point in your life, like now, you can make things happen for yourself.
Good luck and keep me posted!

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