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All right, I'm a relatively healthy (physically and mentally, I hope) young woman. I've never been intimate with a man. However, I've realized more and more that violence turns me on. For instance, when I see rape on TV or in a movie, I feel myself becoming aroused. When I fantasize, I always have these dark fantasies where a man is hurting me and forcing himself on me. It's not like I don't appreciate or crave romance - I do! Why am I having these thoughts though? I don't want to be hurt or violated or anything, but it just turns me on. Is it all right? Would a man be freaked out if I shared this with him? Would he take advantage of me? I've always thought I was a "good girl". (link)
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I don't think there's anything particularly unusual or alarming about such fantasies. I think most people have them. I wouldn't talk about them in detail to a man you didn't know well -- wait until you have known him awhile and are reasonably sure he won't "freak out." But what you think about privately is your own business and there are no bad thoughts, only bad actions. I think a lot of people have such fantasies as you're describing because lust always involves an element of mystery -- and what is more mysterious than some stranger who compels you to make love to him?
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Thanks- your last bit is exactly how I feel.
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