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I love my boyfriend, i really do and we have a great relationship but im still very good friends with my ex. me and my ex have been together 4 other times and whenever we are together we flirt like crazy and he always tries
to put hims arms around me, or find a way to be close to me. I feel guilty because i love my boyfriend so much, but i feel like i have little "feelings" for my ex. I wouldnt leave my boyfriend for my ex, because my boyfriend and i have to much and hes an amazing guy, but i have dreams about my ex and think about him alot. whats my problem? i also always wanna just kiss him and have him hold me and be with me. i feel soo bad! what am i sopose to do. i tried to talk to my boyfriend, but that doesnt go well AT ALL. what should i do?!?!? thanks in advance (link)
Do you spend a lot of time with your ex? Usually the thing you do the most (or the person you spend the most time with) is the topic of your thinking. If you spend more time with your boyfriend you will probably be thinking about him as aposed to your ex. Even if you still find yourself thinking about your ex it's okay as long as you dont act on your fantacies. Remember the saying "You always want what you can't have" well my lady. I'm sure you could have him if you wanted but not without losing or cheating on your boyfriend. It's not my place to tell you whether you love him or not but for his sake (his heart, his pride) don't do anything with your ex. As a matter a fact I think it's best you don't hang out with him too too much. You will either develope feelings for him again or simply make your boyfriend suspicious or jealous. Just ask yourself, why did you and your ex breakup? Do you really want to go there again? That's it. Sure you'll do the right thing.


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