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hey, i'm jessie and i like long walks on the beach and bubble baths!

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okay so like my best friend brandon is very emotionaly depressed because of another one of my best freinds,im always ther for him and everything and like i care so much about him and like he thinks about killing himself and everything adn he cuts sometimes when he doesnt feel like he wants to live..nad i tell him not to cause i use to cut and it sucks it is hard to stop and everything but he has it tough..I talk to him about everything and im always there for him but like whenever the tables are turned and there is something rong with me he doesnt do anything..he is one of those people who wont like fight or stick up for someone he suposivly cares about..and i dont kno what to do..my other best friend who is like a sister to me tells me not to be his best friend anymore cause he isnt treating me right but i kno if i dothat then ill break him more and ill push him to the edge cause he told me if i ever gave up on us he'de probally kill himself and i dont want him to die..please someone help me!!

If your upset about him not being there for you, think of the way he feels:
there is obviously something emotionally wrong with the way his brain is functioning right now. and if he thought there was one single person that cared as much as you did, he wouldn't be doing this to himself. so he doesn't see you the way you say you are to him, which i'm sure you are. If you push him away when you are obviously the closest one to him, anything could happen! if you really care about him, don't abandon him!!! Tell your friend that you love her and all its just that she can't tell you who to be friends with and that just because she has a problem with him doesn't mean you have to to. and if she doesn't understand shes not that great of a friend. xoxoxo, i hope this helped you with your EXTREMELY difficult situation!
Jessie
PS, don't harp on the fact that he doesn't return your sympathy. and also, don't talk to him about feeling better and stopping. Talk to him like hes normal otherwise he'll feel like theres something wrong with him and want to kill himself more.*****

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(Rating: 5) thanks soo much
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