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I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me? (link)
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well, im sure the thought of loosing weight has crossed your mind.lots of positives there. the boost in confidence would go along way in your happiness and your love life. on the other hand i think you just need to learn to take pride in yourself. there are very beautiful curvy women out there. an whether you know it or not theres a lot of men out there that prefer a curvy woman. i think if loosing a little weight would make you feel better about yourself, you should go all out to achieve your goal, but if its just acceptance you want, sit down each day and go over the things about yourself that you are most proud of,like maybe you have great hair, or beautiful clear skin. if your seeing someone ask him what he likes best about you.try to focus on the things in your life that make you feel good, maybe your extremely intelligent or kind hearted. i think all you really need to do is find every little thing in your life and about you that you take pride in. spend some time each day just thinking about how good these things make you. keep in mind as well, that the person you are inside doesent show up on the scale.good luck!
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Thank you! Your right lots of men do love curvy women. I have one! LOL The funny part is he loves it and I hate it! Anyway Thank you! You was great!
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