Wow. Its been a really long time since I've been on this name. I lost the password for this one and haven't been on this advice column for a while. My other one is ohxbaby. So yeah, I love giving advice, and if you like my advice just drop a question and I'll answer it A.S.A.P.
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Member Since: January 25, 2006
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Last Update: June 4, 2006
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The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on? (link)
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I think he is just insecure that he is overweight so he takes it out on you.
A lot of people do that, they are bitter because they arn't happy with themselves.
You are average, or perfect, and he isn't. It makes him mad.
Don't take it personally, try talking to him about it, if he is to bitter to even do that, move on.
You shouldn't have to deal with his insecurity.
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Thankyou for your thoughtful answer. I will try not to take it personally, like you said. If he doesnt smarten up, then I will definately move on. There are lots of better guys out there.
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