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I'm blunt. If you want me to answer your questions, expect the truth. I'm not going to sugar-coat it for you because that's just a fancy way of lying. I love helping people with their relationship problems. Since I was twelve, I've had family memebers and people I don't know spill their guts to me. Why? I have no idea. People find me easy to talk to, apparently, even though I rarely open up to anyone, even my best friends. I feel that I'm here to listen, not to talk and that if I can help them with their problems, I can get rid of my own. I'm an really odd person. You can know me one day and the next I'll be someone different.
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My ex-best friend Hana and I used to be really close, but ever since she went down to visit her cousin (who is pretty slutty herself) she's been acting like the only thing that matters in the world is how good she looks. It was really starting to piss me off, so I told her. She blew it off like it was nothing, which made me angrier. So, now she's started hanging out with two other girls that are known as sluts at our school, and they've really been annoying me. She pretty much dropped me for them, which made me sad. Now since she's found out that her only friends are the other two sluts, she's been trying to be friends with me again. I don't know if I should accept her friendship or not because it really made me angry how she dropped me like that. She hasn't even said sorry... Now since she's been hanging out with those two girls, I haven't talked to her at all. It really makes me sad that we're not friends anymore because we used to be able to tell eachother anything. I've made new friends, but in a way I miss my old one. If you have any advice for me then that would be awesome! Thanks
Look, babe. You've got to make a choice. But before I tell you your options...I'm going to tell you that she will NEVER be the same way again. No matter how hard or how deeply you want it, she'll never go back to the way she was before. There will always be something different about her. Now, you're options are: Ditch her and find some new friends, or take her back and explain how you feel to her about the way she's been acting. See...She thinks she's doing nothing wrong. Open her eyes. You're gonna hurt her by doing that...but later, she'll be happier that you did IF she changes her ways. Make her understand that what she's doing is horribly dangerous. Show her pictures of herpes, genital warts, all of them. Show her that if she keeps on this path, she's going to end up like that. EVEN if she protects herself. Only 99% effective against HIV and Pregnancy, but not even close to protecting her from Herpes, Syphilis, or Genital Warts.
Take care, love, and let me know what you do.
Abby
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Thanks for the advice, but the slutty I'm talking about isn't, like, having sex. It's mostly how she's been dressing and acting... Thanks for the advice though!
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