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ok I really need some help,in the next few hours,I just recently ended a realationship but still love this guy,lets call him guy a but I have some1 from a preveious realationship and i kinda sorta love him 2,but he lives in bel air and not near me,but guy a is really close,turned out guy a lied to me and now i was really mad at him and my mom hates him,understandable,but i'm going rock climbing tongiht,and i want a guy to go with me,should I go with guy a or no1?? or bring my x boyfriend and his g/f?/ or just another friend of mine,ineed to meet guy! (link)
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ok, sounds like your pretty stressed. 1st calm down, depending on what guyA lied about, and why your mother doesent like him maybe he should be out of the picture for now. i think you should take one of your girlfriends with you explain your feelings to her(a good friend,lol) ask how she views your sitch. get someone who sees the whole picture. one thing tho that bugs me, honey, you dont neeeeeed a guy, as crazy as this may seem to you, you reallly cant depend on having a guy in your life (or to go rock climbing with) to make you happy.as far as choosing id spend some time alone learning to be happy without a guy, but if you must....was guyA's lie forgivable? something you can accept and forget? or something thats going to make you angry everytime you think about it? long distance relationships are nearly impossible unless you practically have an unbreakable bond and unfailing trust. i dont know everything so youll have to do a pros, an cons list on your own, but keep in mind, you honestly cant be happy with anyone utill your happy with yourself. its how you learn what you want from a guy, what youll put up with and what you wont.how you deal with a liar, included. good luck
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