about

What comes first? I am Sarah. I have been around since 4.14.88, meaning I am an Aries. Brandon and I have been together since 7.12.04 and got engaged 12.15.04. We live in a beautiful house in Tehachapi, Ca with our three cats; Zoe, Mallie, and Sophie. I somehow graduated class of 2005 with a 3.9 GPA. I plan to become a cosmetologist and plan on attending school next fall in Paso Robles, Ca. I would like to open a salon and a clothing boutique. I sound so creative and put together.
Updates:
-We are getting married May 24th!
- I am pregnant. The baby is due December 18th!
♥ Sarah

advice

Ok, this question is what i'd probally call an original.

its actually quite simple

a while back i was dating this black kid ( and i saw black bc this was a main problem )and he was freidns with my brother, and so he was over my house often, and my mother knew him

we started going out, things progressed, and my mother found out, she said things like he just wanted to get in my pants, hes a street kid, he doesnt' get good grades, and alot more things, but even though my motehr said she wasn't racist i felt she was ( she also said that my rep could get ruined )

i didn't really care what people thought bc i loved him, but eventually he moved away, and i had a rough time

main point : my mother ( finally ) bought me thongs in the summer 05 =]

i likeed thmm alot and everything, but my mother ''heard stores'' about me and him, and then one day she came in my room and took them..

at first i was confused, and i still am
she NEVER told me why she took them.which made me extremley pissed

its been MONTHs now, and i even asked for them back probally 2 months ago..and she said no!

it really pisses me off, its hard to explain

do you think theres a way to get my mother to give them back? its hard to konw bc i don't know why she took them
anything would be apprecited though

thanks in advance

Dear Mom Confused,
I get the feeling that your Mom took your panties away because she might think that thongs are a sexual choice of underwear. I dont know what you and your ex did; but I am guessing that it is sexual? Your Mom is not ready to hear that you are a sexual person or that you have grown up. Taking the thongs away probably made her feel in control and taking them away from you meant something to her, obviously. She might think that if she can take your thongs away then she can rid you of a sexual act. That is what I am guessing. You might want to have a personal talk with your Mom, depending how close the two of you are and tell her how you feel. You should also let her in on some things that are going on with you in your life. Expect her to have questions, if your not comfortable explaining, then tell her; but you might want to let her know some things. It might make her feel better to know that she is still apart of your life. Good luck and I hope you get your underwear back.
♥ Miss Moo

[view]

(Rating: 5) hey thanks for reading my question and giving me a response..

that is sort of what i was feeling as she took them away, just completly confused and sad! lol

the thing is now, that he moved away a month ago, and i've been nice to her for a loong time, and i've improved out relationship, thanks for you advice, i
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker