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Q: My boyfriend is constantly trying to tease me. He'll show me his underwear, say kinky things to me, and try to get me in "the mood". It didnt bother me a whole lot, but I got the idea that he wanted a lot of this in return. So I started giving it to him. Only he responded by saying that I was no longer his innocent girlfriend, how I've changed, and how surprised he is at me. He seemed so dissapointed. This type of thing keeps happening. I'll show him what I think is a great picture of me and he'll somehow suggest that I have low selfesteem and I should realise how beautiful I am. I dont get it? Should he be the only one in our realtionship who acts this way? Did I go too far? I rate.
everything is such a double standard. its like if you give him what he wants, he thinks you arent the "innocent" girl he knew and if you dont he gets mad or just continues persistently with the comments. all i can tell you is to talk to him. tell him how you feel and what you thought he wanted. explain to him that you dont want to play the whole mind game thing anymore. you want it all out on the table. good luck

THANK YOU :P that's exactly what I said to him

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