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Q: ok. i was going out w/ this guy for about 2 months. we realy liked each other, and everything, but then i realized that i still liked this other guy, and id nevr gotten over. so i dumped him, cuz i thought it wouldnt b fair to go out w/ him wen i liked another guy. well, i immediately regretted it, and i still like him, but he wont talk to me and he says he really hates me. i apologized a million times and tried to talk him into going back out w/ me. he said he still liked me, but he cant trust me, bcuz i dumped him for another guy, and he doesn't want his heart broken again. so wat should i do? i rly rly like him, and i wanna go back out w/ him, but he just dosnt trust me.
Don't worry, you did the right thing because you didn't want to him to feel hurt that you still have feelings for another guy. Try telling him why you broke up with him and let him know tha you did want him to feel hurt. You were confused and didn't want things to turn worse. Ask him why he can't trust you because its not like you ask the other guy out or anything. Just give him some time and dont worry too much because if he can't believe or trust you for any reason, he isn't the right guy for you. Hope this helps!

-Manda

thank u, ur really a big help. : )

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ItzMzManda
Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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