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Q: ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets call him kyle well he was 15 like me. and i dont know. but he talked about peverted things and i was ok with it. i talked it back and stuff. and i dont know but i didnt feel as uncomfortable with him and talking about it. and now with matt, he is talking to me again and im trying soo hard to like be comfortable with him and all the things he says. but i just dont seem like i can. so i really dont know what my question is. but i just need some advice about the whole situation.anything helps. definate 5's for any advice.

I think that you feel weird around Matt because he is older then you. I have been in this position before to I once dated a guy three years older then me and he did that same thing but It didn't make me feel uncomfortable. People are different and It must be different for you. Maybe you should try talking to him about it and see what happens. Maybe you are better off with someone your own age. And its not your fault that you feel uncomfortable things just happen. Hope I helped.

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