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Gender: Male
Age: 18
AIM: bsphil101
Member Since: October 5, 2005
Answers: 287
Last Update: April 30, 2006
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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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If that were me I would probably not be so stupid as to get plastered and start feeling up other people.
You would cheat, though, if you let go of your inhibitions enough.
You can't really say or do anything now that will help your situation, just make sure to be honest and truthful and hope for the best from him. I think you are already very lucky for keeping him as long as you have so far.
Also, to the people said that "you made a mistake" and "you didn't do it on purpose," well, that's not exactly true. You did do it on purpose. You willingly chose to drink. That comes with some responsibilites that you couldn't handle, namely moderation.
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your right..the boys werent even supposed to come over..it was just us girls drinking until one of them called my friend and she told them to come on over. he came to the conclusion to stay with me, put it in the past, and he appreciated my honesty. thanks. and yeah im not drinking anymore unless im with him..-- not like we drink much anyway..only 3 times a year maybe.
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