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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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well i would go with your friends opinion, shes lookin out for you n best friends know best trust me. it doesnt matter how much you like this guy, if you dont want to have sex then say NO n if he doesnt want anything but that then you should just say your better than that n you have to respect your self for that. guys are not worth the trouble, esp one who wants to do it n then go tell all his lil friends n then they all think of you as a hoe or somethin which is not true at all. so im sayin dont do it if you dont want to, wait till your n love n know it for a fact. hope i helped n good luck
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