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Hey everyone,
Usually i dont come here unless it's a TOTAL emergency--sadly this is one of those times. My brother, Dustin is in love with this girl, Samantha. Now, my brother lives in Lousiville, TX and she lives in Houston (it's 6 hours away). But Dustin dosent do long distance relationships because he cant see her in real life, he cant kiss her, he cant hold her, etc. So he feels that he cant go out with her. Now, Samantha and her best friend told him that Dustin is Samantha's only reason to live, and she'll probably kill herself without Dustin. So Dustin, NEVER cries--and he's crying. Dustin tried to cut himself last night, but couldnt because his blade wasnt sharp. So i ask of you all, wtf should we all do? I mean, it's a life or death situation for both of them, and i dont want ANYONE dying here, so it's really hard for me to figure this out on my own. If anyone can help me,or anything to help me with, Please reply and/or IM me on AOL/AIM at silverwolf1561. Thankyou, SO much!

How old is he ? It may not seem relevant to most, but it 'kinda' matters what age range.

Most teens experience this. Loves of our 'temporary' Life seems like this is ALL we are really Living for, b/c..really, in a Teenager's life, having someone have 'love for us' is all we really HAVE !

Does he think that 'being selfish' enuff to "Kill Himself" is going to solve anything ? Has he even thought of how that will make Sam feel, or the greif he will cause your Family over this..for that matter ? He sounds like he is looking for Attention, and if Sam is not there, he surely is 'getting all the attention' he is calling out for.

He has SOOOO Much more to live for. Long distance relationships are built on "Strength", and if he feels like he's not STRONG ENUFF, then he should consider some thearopy. He is going to have obsticals in his life that he feels hurts him or feels like he cannot handle HIS WHOLE LIFE! That is why it is called LIFE !!
Keeping in touch with his 'gurl' when he can is all he can do, Technology is something else these days! When he has a chance, visit...or visa-versa.
He should be focused on SCHOOL & Future, not suicide.
Not to sound unsympathetic or cold, u guys...
but Dustin...seriously, Get a Hobby !

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