Anyone need advice or just to chat i am hoping to be able to help as many people as possibe. I am also on here to look for advice--hey we all need it! So if you need advice you can get to me as you prefer. Thank you and hope all is well
E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
AIM: sxeys4
Yahoo: sweeteyez4u2c@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 1, 2005
Answers: 157
Last Update: December 25, 2005
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I just recently had this fight with my so-called "best friend" over this past weekend. This girl lies about everything, & I definately have proof of it, because she'll tell me one thing, and then tell my friend another thing. And it's not like that friend lied to me about it--cause many of my friends have said she lied, and we've showed both of our AIM conversations to eachother to prove it. And on Sunday, we had this huge fight on AIM, like we kept saying horrible things about eachother (I admit..but she did too). I just didn't even care anymore how I talked to her, because of all the lies that came out of her mouth. I was trying to get it into her head that she lies to everyone about everything. The story goes on and on, but basically I told her that everybody's beginning to hate her because of this, and that she has no friends (harsh, but technically, partially true). She told me everybody hates me, blah blah blah. Yeah we kept saying stuff like that to eachother. Now, she IMed me today and said "sorry". But I didn't answer. I seriously don't think I should accept her apology, because I don't see anything in her that means being a friend. Also--Me & her have fought many times before about endless things. Sounds pretty pathetic for "best friends" right? Yeah, that's how I see it. I don't even want to be friends with her anymore. It's really just not worth it, because we fight TOO much about stupid things, and I don't want to have "friends" like that. I don't like hanging out with her--there's always a problem. Again--I don't see anything in her that means a FRIEND to me. And I think the reason she's apologizing is because everybody's confronting her now about lying and what-not. And as I said before-It's getting to the point where no one wants to be friends with her anymore. So what do I do? I really DON'T want to be friends, but how do deal with it? IDK. EHH COMPLICATED! (link)
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You have to do what is right for you. If you feel she is not a worthy friend then tell her about it and tell her why you are not going to be associating with her. Tell her you just think that she is saying she is sorry b/c she knows she has no friends. I personally would not asociate with someone like that b/c one day she may lie about something on your behalf and it could be big trouble. So it is your decision but i agree and think it is time you go your separate wya and be happy. Also let her know that you done witht he drama b/c the mean words and fighting is not good nor healthy thats not what friends do and say u wish her the best of luck but your moving on. Good luck sweets
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:) she hasnt talked to me since then--but if she does say something like 'SORRY' again, I will be sure to mention those things to her. thanks
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