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Alittle advice: Stay on my good side.
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Ever since my bf moved to another state for a job I feel as though a weight has been lifted. I think he was upset with me because the last time we talked over the phone before he moved I sounded so happy. Part of the reason for my happiness is that I had just started a new job with a really cool company after years of unemployment and dissatisfaction. Well my self esteem and confidence has totally gone up and when I told my bf how happy I was with things he didnt sound happy at all for me. I also think he was mad at me because he said he was thinking of stopping into the store before he left but I didnt sound to thrilled to see him. Well it's been a month since we've talked or emailed and you know what, I don't even miss him!!
My question is : Why do you think he was mad that I sounded so happy? Wouldnt he want me to be happy? And also I feel a little guilty for being glad that he is gone.
Does anyone have any insight? (link)
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Sounds like this guy was holdin you back, and subconsciously u didnt want to believe that. Now that hes gone, your startin to get motivation back, and a new self confidence he tended to sit on. Personally, I think your startin to realize this guy might not be the one--despite the love you may have had/or even still feel. If it isnt affecting you now, especially being a month of no contact--let it be, and move on. Everyone has to remember whos the true numero uno [number one], and thats always YOURSELF. He wasnt thrilled cus youve proven to contain a better atmosphere w/out him, risen your own esteem, and are seemingly better all around --w/out his help or company . You have guilt cus your a good human being, but that guilt will eventually bore a hole in your mind if u keep focused on it, its a dog eat dog world, better yourself first, and if the relationship was meant to be--it'll fix itself.
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Thanks for the advice, I think you're right, I am the number one most important thing. I feel alot better now.
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