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Hey all..My parents are REALLY strict and when I say really, I mean REALLY. They wont let me go over ANY guys house, nevertheless even let me hang out with guys. But they'll let them come here but id rather not have that because I have SO many kids living in my house (7 girls, 4 boys) that we would never get privacy at all. What can I do to sneak around without getting caught? Or how could I persuade my Mom and Dad to let me hang out with boys.. (link)
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Okay, first off if your between the ages of 13-15, chill on the sneaking part cus it'll only worsen the strickness of your parents--cus they always find out. Then they'll always make reference to your defiance and disobediance--even when your 16+, then you'll be living in true hell. Im sure its madd frustrating living in that brady bunch atmosphere, I couldnt stand living with my one sibling. I dont know if your parents are any bit liberal, then I'd tell you to sit em down and talk to them about this. Telling them that when you finally get your independance they are going to have a wild child like the girls on those degrading gone wild tapes, especially is their grip isnt lessened. Ive seen it a milion times, people goin to college after being held down by their parental units, expiriencing freedom for the first time, and not being able to handle it maturly. Tell them they have a very trusting young women on their hands and that you need your space. If they will allow you to venture into the "boy" sector, you'd be willing to compromise through rules created by both parties (yours and theirs combined). For example: Mom, I need alittle more freedom, and would like to see a boy outside of our house, I'd be willing to compromise with you, maybe not going over his house but staying in a public area, or just going to a movie in which I'd call you and honestly report my plans. " You could even reasure them by giving the boy's parents #, telling them to call and check on the situation. If your older then 15, your parents need to seek counseling, especially if they are this strict...
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